Vitamodo School · Bundle 6: Information Consumption · Brochure 3 of 10 · Version 1.0
Andris Saulitis, MD
For those who: have noticed substantial accumulated dissatisfaction with your own life, body, work, relationships, or self in connection with substantial social-media consumption.
Not for those who: want a wholesale prescription against social media. The careful response is more substantive than either dismissal or deletion.
What this is — the clinical reality
There is a specific contemporary cognitive and affective pattern that has, in honest clinical assessment, produced more substantive cumulative cost in modern patients than almost any other information-consumption pattern, and that gets less substantive clinical attention than its scale warrants. The pattern is the persistent comparison of one's own life, body, work, relationships, parenting, achievements, and inner experience to the curated presentations of these same dimensions in the lives of others, mediated substantially through social media. The pattern is rarely dramatic; it operates quietly, often unrecognised by the person carrying it, producing substantive accumulated cost over months and years that is rarely traced back to its source. The popular name social comparison does not capture the substantive structure of the pattern; the quiet wound captures the affective texture but understates the substantive clinical reality.
This brochure is for the reader who has noticed substantial accumulated cost from the pattern — substantial dissatisfaction with their own life, body, work, relationships, or self that did not exist at the same intensity before substantial social-media consumption, or that has substantially intensified during it — and who wants the careful framework rather than the standard just stop comparing response. It builds on the preceding brochures of Bundle 6 — doomscrolling (1) and news anxiety (2) — and integrates with them as the third substantive pattern of contemporary information consumption.
A note before we go further. The pattern is not exclusively a problem of adolescents or of women, though the substantive literature has substantially documented its particular cost in adolescent girls and young women. The pattern operates in patients of all ages and genders, in slightly different forms — parents comparing their children to other children, professionals comparing their careers to peer careers, men comparing their bodies to athletic and physique presentations, older adults comparing their lives to the apparent flourishing of others. The substantive structure is the same across populations; the specific content and the most-affected populations vary.
A second note. The pattern is not, in honest assessment, a moral failure or a sign of envy or pettiness. It is a substantive cognitive and affective pattern produced by the systematic asymmetry between what the patient knows about their own life (everything — including the difficult, the failed, the unphotographed, the merely ordinary) and what they know about the lives of others through social media (a substantially curated selection of moments designed for presentation). The asymmetry is not principally the result of dishonesty by those being compared to; it is the systematic structure of the medium. The pattern, in clinical terms, is closer to the systematic distortion of optical illusions than to a moral character feature.